Pat yourself on the back.. You've become just another hypocrite..

((بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم))

إِنَّ الْمُنَافِقِينَ يُخَادِعُونَ اللّهَ وَهُوَ خَادِعُهُمْ وَإِذَا قَامُواْ إِلَى الصَّلاَةِ قَامُواْ كُسَالَى يُرَآؤُونَ النَّاسَ وَلاَ يَذْكُرُونَ اللّهَ إِلاَّ قَلِيلاً

((صدق الله العظيم))

“Surely the hypocrites strive to deceive Allah, and He shall requite their deceit to them, and when they stand up to prayer they stand up sluggishly; they do it only to be seen of men and do not remember Allah save a little. (The Women 4.142)”

Initially, I would like to begin by admitting that even though I never ever miss one single prayer, I'm very fast... Because I can't miss any prayer, it has become a part of my daily routine rather than 5 minutes to actually talk to Allah (sub7ana wa ta3ala..) Mako khushoo3 oo hal shay wayed emthayegni and I really want to fix it...

Hypocrites... Many of the readers will argue with me because they DO believe in privacy.. First of all, so do I... I believe (وإذا بُليتم فاستتروا)... When you do something, especially when its wrong, keep it to your self... When you find out something about other people, keep it to your self....

However, what I despise is when people do wrong things and ACT infront of people like its the WORST thing in the world, just to make everyone aware that they would never do such thing...

Case 1: While chatting with friends, I would defend love marriages, even though at the time I was just a seventeen yearold kid who never even considered knowing a guy.. Then this girl (who at the time has already been in 3 relationships) would say --> UMBAIII BANAT EKALMON!!! hathaaill maaaa yadrooon enna eliiii ekaaalemhaaaaa gaaa3eddd ege9 3alaaaiha?!? a9laaan Lo wa7ed e7ebhaa chann he came from the door oo kha6abha!!....

She made ME seem like the bad one... Although SHE was the one with the boyfriend...

Case 2: (another girl I know who used to be in a serious relationship when she was nineteen)... She turned 24 and got engaged in a traditional way... Then when girls asked her how being engaged felt like, she said:: waaaayhhhh wanaasaa Finally agdar akalem.. i've been waiting for so long...

What on earth??? NO ONE ASKED YOU IF YOU HAD A PAST!! Why el film laish??

Case 3: Parents allow their daughters to go with girls based on how appropriatley dressed they are, how supposedly strict their parents are..etc. If they somehow heard that the girl has a past... she's a definite NO NO! I agree with parents.. They love their daughters.. They don't want them to be negatively influenced.. But if the friend was an american girl, who used to go to school with your daughters.. She's your daughter's friend and they want to go out... Would U, a mother, say no?

I think not.... why? Because she's American.. She's not Muslim... She's not a bad person, even if there is a chance she goes clubbing, drinks, has one night stands... (Not suggesting they do all that.. just stating some possibilities) Why isnt it bad? Because she's from a different society...

What do I call that... Hypocrisy!

- Parents preach to their children about right and wrong... Then only hold their daughters accountable for their actions.

- A girl is abnormal if she thinks a soccer player on TV is hot... bss when her brother watches rated r scenes, shegolon? --> ee ba3ad he's a guy.. its bound to happen.

- Oprah talking about kegel exercises--> MUFEEED... Fozeya drai3 talking about sex--> QALELAT ADAB...

- A Kuwaiti guy falls in love with a european girl... accepts her past... accepts her mistakes... accepts her differences... tolerates her religion... Same guy falls for a kuwaiti girl, Oh kalemat wa7ed... la maaaagdar! SHLON ANA RAYAL ARTHA!!! tolerate her differences? I don't think so.. I have to think etha badu 7athar senna she3a etc.

- Girls who have done so many things with their boyfriends call other girls bad names... Why? le2anna 7alal 3alaihum oo 7aram 3ala ghairhum...

I have standards... morals... limits... No matter where I am... But I believe that every one on this planet has a story...

I'm not advocating bad behavior... Not at all... In fact I'm against it completely.. To be honest, I've observed this group of three girls... One of them is very honest about her rendezvous.. The other two girls appear to be very appropriate but in real life, they're really wilder than their friend. Ironically, the two "conservative looking" girls talk behind eachother's back all the time. They try to influence people all the time. They are not loyal whatsoever. The openly active one however, is very sweet and never talked about anyone.. She did her thing and made sure she didn't harm anyone but herself.

Its your choice to be their friend or not, to criticize them or not... We all choose to be around those who make us most comfortable... However its not your choice to mock others, to judge them, and most importantly, to think that you are better than them when you do the same things they do but secretly... That just makes you a hypocrite! Atleast they are honest and admit their mistakes... Atleast THEY feel sorry and try to teach others by sharing their bad experiences... Atleast they don't lie and trick you to be their friend... The way hypocrites do....