I wish I could erase your Existence...

Regret… Is it just sadness and disappointment? For some people it is that simple… For others, its sadly way beyond the feeling of remorse.

Did you ever meet someone and regret the day you ever acknowledged their existence?
To some of us, we might regret meeting a person because they caused us pain and made us waste our precious time filling us with doubt and insecurities… In this case, we regret being the victim…

However, my concern is with those of you who have befriended people who made you do things that no one in their right mind would do.. They made you lose the morals you’ve been raised by and building for years, in one tiny second.. You feel like you want earth to crumble and swallow you in… At times you forget about it because you keep yourself busy… But reality always comes back uninvited.. If you feel this way, let me tell you this..

A Life without any regrets does not exist! You CANNOT avoid it! Bsss…. Its in your hands to turn your regrets from burdens that impede your future and happiness, into motivation to move on with your life..

1) Find out what you really regret. Was is something beyond your control? Did you hurt someone? It is important to put your feelings aside and ask yourself to identify the REAL problem..

2) If you hurt someone.. Ask for their forgiveness, even if they don’t believe you committed a mistake. Forgive yourself.. And forgive whoever was responsible for influencing you into your bad habits.

3) Don’t hold a grudge. Accept responsibility and promise yourself to better handle such situations in the future.

4) Deal with the harmful relationships with people that make you do things that leave you with serious regrets. If you have done so already, be proud that you already took the biggest step to heal yourself from the guilt trips.

People;*** No matter what your mistakes encompass… they can be salvaged and fixed if you really feel sorry… Those same mistakes you made can be used to help others avoid them. Its in your hands to pay it forward. So use your experience to help your little brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces, and most importantly, your children. You can save a kid who has made the same mistake because you’ll be there to understand, to give hope… We are humans. Our life won’t ever consist straight perfect lines. It will have curves and rough edges and bumps. We have faults and flaws and we all commit one sin or the other.. Give yourself a break… No one is here to judge, just to love;**